Three types of sex
Don’t deny it, there are.
1. Fucking-balls to the wall, heat of the moment, “Fuck me” sex
2. Sex-you know, that thing we do because we are in a relationship
3. Making Love-the sickeningly adorable and romantic sex
For the majority of my sexual career, I have had 1, some 2, but never 3. It’s something you do someone you are in love with. Something you do when you want sex to be slow and pretty. You light candles, you throw flower petals, and wear that perfume that makes you feel sexy but not minxxx-like.
I guess you could say that I still haven’t, but I made some “nice-nice.” I had romantic sex. It was cute, slow, pretty, and amazing. I asked him if he was holding back, keeping himself from cumming, he said, “I want it to be romantic.”
I was so flabbergasted. How do you respond to that? The most adorable thing you’ve ever heard?
We talked for almost an hour afterwards. About what we like about each other, what we feel, what we want. I have never felt more connected to someone in my whole life. He said it perfectly. That we were not having sex to cum but to be close to each other.
He makes me feel so amazing. Don’t get me wrong, I feel awesome most of the time, I don’t need him to feel that way. But I feel even more so with him. That he is perfect for me. He makes me so happy.
Although we enjoy kinking together, sometimes it’s nice to just do the vanilla thing. To have sex that is romantic and loving. It made me cry, but in a good way. I had so many wonderful feelings that they welled up and poured out of me.
How did I get so lucky?